One year ago tomorrow…
Tomorrow marks one year since Steve died, since the Unspeakable happened. I have been dreading this day. Would I relive the horror of last year moment by moment, cry and grieve the senselessness of it all? No. There has been so, so much of it already. Instead, I decided to spend the day quietly, in private ritual, to feel Steve, and to be grateful for having spent many joyous and fruitful years in marriage with this beautiful man.
Wherever you are, please join me tomorrow, October 5th, at 6:00pm PST for a small ritual: rub your hands together until they are really warm. Then point the palms up towards the sky, sending your love and energy to Steve, through the center of your hands, the extension of your heart chakra.
By the magic of the divine mystery, he will feel it!
To honor Steve, to bring together our community, and to place another milestone on this difficult, intense journey, I am finally ready (as ready as I’ll ever be…) to hold a memorial gathering: A Tribute for Steve will take place at Fairfax Community Church, Fairfax, CA on Saturday, December 10th at 4:30-6:00pm.
Please understand that in order to attend, you must preregister, as space is limited. To find out more and to register, please follow this link.
will do! it marks a big anniversary for me as well, one that got all wrapped up in Steve’s passing.
Sending you lots of love <3
I love you Lokita. You are in my prayers. I miss you. Sending lots of love to you dear sister. Xoxoxo
I will visit the spot at some point tomorrow and will do that ritual in Steve’s honor wherever I am at 6:00. I will also be sending blessings to you and Coco tons of love.
I will join the blessing for Steve tomorrow at 6. I am so sad that I will not be able to join the community to celebrate Steve’s life! I’ll be in Orlando visiting my mom. Sending love to you Lokita.
I can’t believe it has been a year. I am in Utah but I will send love to him through the lovely ritual you suggested.
Much love and light to you.
Dear Lokita,
My husband Eric and I will be there to mourn and celebrate this great human being with you! And tomorrow I shall be with you in prayer and remembrance. Lifting my hands high in to the sky in sacred salute.
Much Love
Le’ema
Yes, Lokita… I will be there. So grateful for the love you two lived and shared.
Thank you for this opening for connection in celebration and in grieving.
Much love to you sister.
Maile
Tomorrow at 6pm I will join you and your community to honor Steve and send a love blast to him. I have no doubt that it will reach him.
hugs and love to you and Coco!
I will join you at 6 tomorrow. Love to you and also to Steve and Coco.
Madhav
I will be with you and everyone else in prayer at 6pm tomorrow. Bless you Lokita. Blessings to Steve. I love you both <3 <3
My husband and I will do this!
hi lokita..I am so sorry to hear about Steve’s passing..I saw several postings by you but I did not know that he actually passed..I just thought someone was ill…Ill not forget my last event that I attended with you and him as instructors almos7 o7 8 years ago at Harbin..thank you for all you did..would love to attend the Dec celebration of his life..tku
I will be participating in this beautiful living ritual celebrating Steve.💗
I wish that I could be there…holding you both in love and comfort.
We will be flying down from Seattle. Lokita, thank you for providing this opportunity for us to celebrate Steve.
Sending you so much love and praying for you to have peace, be free from suffering and have happiness. I love you Lolita.
Lokita, I am sending you, Coco and Steve even more love today, and will be in ritual with you, and I suspect, many others at 6pm tonight. Love Love Love
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Will be sending healing and love tomorrow with all. Thanks for letting me be a part!
Hello Lokita-
Sending you big love on this day. Thanks for inviting us to think of Steve and send love collectively.
I’m with you, Mika
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I am with you today Lokita as you anticipate this evening and I will be with you and this loving community this evening at 6pm. My heart is full of love for you, Steve and Coco.
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Sending lots of love to you and Steve, Lokita! You are in my heart and prayers.
Did you get my email about my visit to Germany? Would love to connect with you
while I am there. xoxoxo
We have already been remember this dear beautiful man today and will be joining all of you soon for this ritual. Thank you Lokita for reaching out to us and including us on this. It means a lot to me.
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Helen and I just did it, aware that we might not be together if it were not for Steve and you.
Love, Bill vdB
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John and I both sent Steve our love and energy at 6 pm PST today. Beautiful memories mingled with feelings of grief and loss. xoxo
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I think a few of us Harbinites are gathering for dinner tomorrow at that time and we will definitely join you in the ritual. Many blessings and Love to you, Lokita.
Thank you for suggesting the ritual. I joined in and appreciate the opportunity to send love and energy to Steve.
I am also sending love and energy to you. xoxoxox