I live in a very remote area. Currently there is no infection with SARS-CoV-2 recorded here. Seeing how fast it spreads worldwide, it makes sense to me to take precautions. For myself, because I am perhaps somewhat more vulnerable due to the cancer I went through. For those close to me, because I feel a sense of responsibility for others, also. Although here it is only an official recommendation rather than a regulation at this point, I am staying put at home, for an extended period of time, to not endanger anyone via my need to be with others, to go out and seek external entertainment. In some way I feel accountable to everyone. My mind and my heart tell me that staying at home is the right thing to do for everyone.
And while our normal way of life dissolves, there is a lot of information out there. In my social media feeds I get links to videos, interviews and articles that inform me that the Covid-19 situation is totally humbug, that it is a conspiracy by politicians who want more power, by corporations who want to profit from future vaccines or treatments, by media conglomerates who want more subscribers, by certain people who want to take our attention away from whatever is really going on, et cetera. Experts with impressive credentials share their insights, and their opinions about why theirs is the truth.
On the other side of the spectrum there is everything the media present to us. First China. Then Italy. Then Spain, Germany and France. Now the US. California. New York. The whole world. Large numbers of dead that cannot be accommodated in crematoria or graveyards. Serious warnings, and in places regulations, to stay home, to practice social distancing, to self-isolate, to quarantine. To help flatten the curve of new infections. Overflowing hospitals at the limit of their capacities. No idea when it will subside.
Whether this is a conspiracy or not, for me that is beside the point. Even if it was a conspiracy, and all those arrangements that are made worldwide were over the top fear mongering, it would not matter. We have no control. The fact is that there is a virus on the loose and we do not know for sure how to handle it. In this case I err on the side of caution.
Somebody told me that he is very disappointed that I, too, am buying into “this crazy hype” by choosing to stay at home by myself instead of socializing and carrying on with normal life. I was stunned. I get it that some people are cynical about what is going on in the world relative to this virus, and that they do not care about what the governments and medical experts suggest or prescribe. I appreciate that they are responsible for their actions, however motivated, and their decisions not to follow rules or recommendations, just as I am responsible for mine. I accept them because that is who they are. And I stay away from them.
With uncertainty looming large, underlying issues are coming up to the surface that can influence interactions with others. Solid relationships are suddenly challenged, old fights are being resurrected, miscommunications are happening everywhere. Long-held frustrations expose themselves, and anger and fear lead people to be unkind and harsh towards those they profess to love.
As we navigate through these uncertain days, weeks and perhaps months I believe it is crucial to be responsible not just for our physical health and that of our fellow humans, but also to cultivate inner peace, clarity and calm. If there is frustration about our life, it is bound to raise its head in the face of this helplessness and loss of control. In moments like these we are confronted with the fact that we are fragile beings, living inside mortal bodies. Our time on this planet is limited. Everything can change in a moment. We cannot rely on anything. Yes, I know; I know this for sure.
Now all of us have the opportunity to be truthful with ourselves. If dissatisfaction, anger or other issues arise in you, I encourage you to be with them, patiently, examine them, and talk about them with your loved ones and friends. If you find yourself disconnected from and arguing with your partner or others close to you or blaming them for your feelings and general life situation, take some time out to collect yourself. Recognize and remind yourself that they are not responsible for any of it.
Give yourself the space to investigate gently if what you are doing in your life is what you want to be doing. Find out if you really want to live the way you do, with the people you are with, your work, everything. We can adjust and make changes; we can celebrate, accept and love our life as it is, too.
Above all, let us cultivate awareness of how we handle ourselves, particularly in this global crisis! I am certain that we all share the same wish – to come out of this shared situation stronger, and together. Let us practice respect with our actions, take responsibility for ourselves and our life, and move beyond our individual ego into commonality and love. ♥
“The fact is that “responsibility”, the very word, has to be broken into two words. It means “response ability”. And response is possible only if you are spontaneous, here and now. Response means that your attention, your awareness, your consciousness, is totally here and now, in the present. So whatever happens, you respond with your whole being. It is not a question of being in tune with somebody else, some holy scripture, or some holy idiot. It simply means to be in tune with the present moment. This ability to respond is responsibility.”
~Gratefully excerpted © Osho, Sat-Chit-Anand: Truth-Consciousness-Bliss, Talk #20